Blog Glue: Pasting Together Offline and Online Impressions
Monday, November 14th, 2005I met Nancy White briefly at Seattle Mind Camp last weekend. I had noticed her interactions and contributions in various group discussions and thought, “now this is an interesting person.” Demographically, she was not the norm that weekend, being both female, and by her own admission, a bit older than most of us
Despite those differences, though, she definitely belonged in this crowd. She is sharp, thoughtful, curious, creative. So she had my attention. Now, after reading her blog, I see that she happens to be interested in some of the same things I’m interested in, like community online and offline, people interactions.
So I just want to make the observation that, yes, I might have stumbled onto her blog eventually anyway; my technorati searching would have turned up one of her posts on community or something. Nancy and I didn’t have any significant in person dialogue any more than “hello, nice to meet you.” But there’s something about having been in a shared physical context, a small discussion group at Mind Camp, that changes the way I now interact with her blog. It’s more personal to me.
So that in-person interaction, even the non-verbals, even seeing what she was interested in, like the visual displays she decorated our walls with, make a difference in my impression of her.
Her blog posts also make an impression. But probably a different impression than if I only knew her by her posts. I can almost hear her voice and see her mannerisms and gestures when I read her posts. She’s human. It’s as if the digital impressions of the blog posts evoke the memory of the in-person impressions. So the digital touch of the blog post is more than just a digital touch. In a sense, it invokes the memory of the in-person experience and makes the blog all the more personal.
This might be similar to the feeling you might get if you go to an author’s book reading and buy a signed copy of the book. After being that close an in-person with the author, your reading of the book is different. You hear the authors voice in your head. You see his face. When he makes a sarcastic remark in the text, you can visualize his face looking sarcastic. So reading the book is now more like having a conversation with him, not just a conversation with his idea, the topic of the book, but a conversation with him, personally.
So maybe this is a no-brainer to you, but it’s noteworthy to me. But I’m convinced that the online presence matters, a lot. It provides the opportunity for many more touchpoints with a person. But the offline presence also matters. From a “sticky network” perspective, Nancy is a lot more “sticky” for me having met her in person than if I hadn’t. And yet, if I didn’t have a stream of blog posts to read after having met her, the memory of those in-person impressions of her at Mind Camp would fade, and the sense of connection would undoubtedly fade with it.
My conclusion is that blogging is a powerful way to interact online in a personal, human way in it’s own right. But blogging combined with in-person interactions is much more powerful for retaining a sense of connectedness.
